tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-716783477219330688.post7839945359664656983..comments2022-01-09T17:16:41.423-08:00Comments on You Don't Know Me: Wanting What I Can't Have 4Dec2011Andrew Ahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03638554382888308671noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-716783477219330688.post-47229766266514216892011-12-19T12:08:37.780-08:002011-12-19T12:08:37.780-08:00On my mission I was in a 4-man apartment for a whi...On my mission I was in a 4-man apartment for a while and one of the other elders was a fantastic, straight (and gorgeous) man who I became very close friends with. We snuggled often at night before going to bed. It wasn't awkward, it wasn't sexual, it just filled that need and it was wonderful. He's happily married today and I was the best man at his wedding. We are still close friends and were able to have that touch dimension of our friendship. I've met a few others like that. <br /><br />Frankly, I'm scared of cuddling with other men I know have SSA (even though none of them know that I have it) because I'm so terrified of things potentially going too far or something I guess. I feel secure and safe having those needs met by a straight guy who also connects with men that way.Obadiahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02135334616357252056noreply@blogger.com